Last week I mentioned in my last blog that I would give you a little run down on a trip That I took to the to the South Island of New Zealand, but unfortunately I can’t find the main item That I believed gave it it’s real flavor. So for the present I will give you a little something I wrote to try and help someone celebrate their own humanness. Thats why I gave it the Title, Don’t Miss You.
The responsibilities we owe to ourselves and others when dealing with everyday life is something that brings upon our shoulders all kinds of emotional and financial burdens. So, how we tackle them will bring all sorts of extreme and diverse issues for us to work through, or maybe try and walk away from. But if we fail to take up the gauntlet we will miss that very special part of ourselves that we never fully realised was always deep down below the surface of our humanity.. I call it my Spirituality - you can call it anything that turns you on.
So, in a nutshell, for the want of a better phrase, it comes down to this. How willing are you to become involved in life and living - that is the question you have to ask yourself - for that and only that will determine its outcome for you. The values that you experience and then deal with can be a blessing to others if you are willing to share them unconditionally - a lifeline for them to grasp when they need it most.
I believe this is very much the concept of being human. Yes, it will bring you a certain amount of suffering but you will eventually find, if you persist at it long enough, the balance between suffering and joy will be tipped in your favour. Living your life to its fullest can be equal to nothing you could ever hope to find elsewhere. And if you don’t believe me, try it for yourself, you’ll be hooked.